Informed Consent

Labor is unpredictable and different for every woman. Even a first, second, and third labor for the same woman will be completely different experiences. Depending on where you choose to give birth, your health care provider, how your labor is progressing, and how you are coping with it, you may be offered a variety of interventions. These could include drugs (such as pitocin or an epidural), mother procedures (such as an episiotomy or cesarean), or infant procedures (such as eye ointment or immediate cord clamping).

I would suggest taking the time while you're pregnant to learn about common procedures. However, in the moment, you may not remember everything you learned or may be reacting on emotions or medical advice. Remember, this is your birth, your body, and your baby. Oftentimes one intervention will lead to another. Anytime a procedure or intervention is suggested, it is wise to ask questions before agreeing.

Referencing Husband-Coached Childbirth by Dr. Robert Bradley, listed are some questions to ask.

1. Is the mother okay?
2. Is the baby okay?
3. What is the problem?
4. What are we afraid might happen?
5. If we choose this procedure or drug(s), what other things will be necessary?
6. How much time do we have?
7. Could this be normal?
8. What other choices do we have?

Some situations, such as true fetal distress, may require you to make a decision quickly. However, much of the time you can ask questions then talk privately to your partner or support person about what you truly want to do. In the end, you want to feel comfortable with your decisions and look back on your birth experience with no regrets.